Blog Conference Prep: Must-Haves for your tote bag

Welcome back to the Blog Conference Prep series that Shell from Things and I Can’t Say have been sharing with you! If you missed any of the posts, you can catch up here:

Today, we’re talking about what to pack. No, not clothes-wise- that’s an entirely different post coming soon! Instead, today we’re talking about what to pack for your room at Blissdom at Shell’s while I cover what to have for your day bag.

Conferences involve a lot of walking and talking.. and walking and talking.. and walking and talking.. did I mention walking and talking?? The last thing you want to do is have to run back to your room constantly for something you may need- especially at the Opryland Hotel. This hotel is HUGE and you can get lost just trying to find your room.(or so I’ve heard.. ahem.) So, it’s important to carry a few essentials in a great tote bag for the conference.

Refillable water bottle. I cannot stress the importance of this. Along with a spare bottle or two of water, this can be one of the most valuable tools at a conference. Remember all that talking we discussed? Your throat will get dry, and there are hundreds of people looking for water. Be prepared!

Business Cards. Preferably in a front or easily-accessible pocket. This is your main way of communicating with others after the conference, so make sure you hand them out! Do not feel self-conscious about giving out your cards, it’s completely acceptable- and expected- at blog conferences. So share those cards as much as possible (especially if they have your picture on them).

Pen and Paper. Yes, really. Granted, my iPad will be with me for note-taking and internet access, but sometimes, it’s a lot easier to jot things down on a piece of paper, especially in between sessions. You never know what info you might want to take down while talking to one of the amazing brands at a conference, or what notes you want to take after meeting your blogging idol. Conferences are full of inspiration and connections, so be ready to write it down.

Your cell phone AND charger. Bringing your cell phone may sound like a no-brainer, but if we’re checking things off, let’s make sure we’re including the essentials! Think of your cell phone as your life line. You can tweet, email, and text to your heart’s content, sharing conference information with your twitter followers, emailing yourself blogging inspiration or texting a friend so you don’t feel so lost. Finding a spot to recharge may not always be easy, but it can be done.

Cough drops & Tissues. Okay, this one may just be for me, but when I was at Bloggy Bootcamp, I got the worst tickle in my throat. There is nothing like a room full of amazing speakers sharing their knowledge having to stop because you’re at your table hacking away. Have things like cough drops and tissues readily available- for you and those around you. You can become someone’s instant hero with these essentials.

Bonus tip: Leave your laptop in your room. When there is such a fabulous conference going on with so many internet-ready people, you may not be able to get online with wifi. Plus? That thing gets heavy! Do your shoulders a favor and  leave it in the room.

What essentials have you found necessary at blog conferences?

Be sure to visit Shell’s site for 7-must-pack-items for your room today! 

 

Porch Swing Stories: Things I Can’t Say

This week’s guest to Porch Swing Stories is no surprise. One of my greatest friends and best things to come from blogging is my other half and business partner, Shell from Things I Can’t Say. Read on to gain a glimpse into the sharing she does so well on her blog- sharing the details of her life, her kids, and in this case, her love. 

In March, Hubs and I will celebrate our nine year wedding anniversary. Nine years.

Of course we started our marriage thinking that we would last forever. What young newlywed couple doesn’t?

But, as time passed, we had our moments when we both thought we’d never make it.

We have, though. And I don’t have any doubts that we’ll be together forever.

And so I can picture myself sitting on my own front porch swing some day, with a teenage granddaughter who asks me “Grammy, how do you know if you are in love? What does it feel like?”

I’ll smile, reach way back in my memory, and remember what it was like to fall in love, into a love that lasted: how I was so sure that this was the man that I was meant to spend the rest of my life with.

When he and I were dating, it was like we were dancing.

It was fun and made me a little dizzy.

After a while, I realized we were dancing towards the edge of a cliff.

Once there, I could jump.

And truly be in love.

With no turning back.

Or, I could stay where it was safe and fun, just keep dancing without going anywhere.

But, I realized that I wanted to take this leap with this man.

And once I did, there really was no going back.

We were in love, we’d made the decision to leap together, and we couldn’t turn back.

Sometimes it felt like we were flying, sometimes like we were floating.

Other times it felt like we were speeding towards something dangerous and painful and scary.

But, always, always: we were together.

We couldn’t change our minds and say that we didn’t want to make the leap because we already had.

It was a decision we couldn’t change, couldn’t go back on.

And as time passed, we had more of the floating, flying moments and less of the scared-we’re-about-to-crash moments.

And we were always together.

That is what it’s like to be in love forever.

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Networking at conferences: How to talk to brands

Welcome to the latest installment of the Blog Conference Prep series that Shell from Things I Can’t Say have been sharing.

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  So far we have covered:

Today, we’re covering networking. Shell is talking about why you shouldn’t be afraid to talk to people at conferences, while I’m discussing how to communicate with brands. Remember, brand representatives are people too!

Talk about yourself- a little.

While you don’t want to monopolize an entire conversation with a brand representative, you do want to make a lasting impression. Share something memorable about your blog, such as a feature you do or a story you shared that relates to their brand. Make it clear why they should remember you.

Do not start by demanding “stuff”.

Brands attend and sponsor these events looking to promote their products, first and foremost. Many of them also attend to grow their community and network with bloggers. By the fact that they are at a blogging conference in the first place demonstrates that they at least have a basic understanding about how awesome bloggers are at spreading the word about brands.

Keep in mind, timing is everything.

Chances are, brand representatives are not going home and immediately sending out emails to bloggers. While many will do this as an initial contact, many promotions and programs are not going to start the week following a conference. For example, last year, a group of bloggers were invited to attend a brand event five months after Blissdom- and more opportunities to work with the brand continued throughout the year. Make your connections, keep in contact, and do not expect immediate results.

Maintain an open mind.

While there are many major, well-known brands at conferences, do not let the fact that a table or booth is advertising a brand you don’t recognize discourage you from engaging. Start-ups, local companies, and smaller businesses that attend these conferences can be the perfect partners for you to work with in some way. Beyond learning about something new, you may have first access to the next great thing.

What are some of your networking tips for a conference?

Don’t miss Shell’s post today Blog Conference Prep: Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Talk to People to learn how to network with other conference attendees!

Porch Swing Stories: In These Small Moments

I am so excited to bring you my first guest of Porch Swing Stories. A few months back while searching for inspiration for my blog, I had a conversation with the lovely Nichole of In These Small Moments. Not only is she an extraordinary writer, but she is an inspiring person I am so thrilled to call a friend. Read on for the first installment of many, many Porch Swing Stories- and one that will surely be a favorite. 

Of course I hold my four-year-old daughter’s hand every day.

I take it into my own when we cross the street, when I help her out of the car, when I lead her into her bedroom for nap.

As I do with all of the things that I hold most dearly, I had memorized the feel of her hand in mine, the bits of chubbiness left over from when she was a toddler…a physical reminder that she is still, in so many ways, my baby.

Last night, as we went upstairs to begin our bedtime routine, she reached for my hand and something was different.

Her hand slipped into mine so smoothly and I was struck by the way it felt so lithe.

Her fingers wrapped almost completely around hand and I was amazed by how long and lean they’ve have gotten.

How did I not notice how her hand is no longer plump, but is now that of a young girl?

Where did the chubbiness go? When did those toddler creases thin out?

Had I blinked? Had I been distracted by all of the big and little responsibilities and endless business that fills our days?

The zillion trips to ballet class, Target, and the grocery store…the endless to do list…they have crowded out this change inmy daughter.

Noticing this change makes me wonder what else have I missed. What has slipped past me, unnoticed?

If I could summarize my wish for the upcoming year, it would be to be more present.

And last night, as I held Katie’s hand, I was reminded of the weight of that committment.

Because what could possibly be more important than that?

Don’t miss any of Nichole’s posts at her blog in these small moments or over at Babble Kid Scoop! Interested in sharing a Porch Swing Story? Email me at ashley {at} myfrontporchswing {dot} com.

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